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Where did you lose heart? Every story you remember about your life holds a piece of you, a mirror to your true self. Some moments empowered us, others fractured us in trauma. It’s not the pain you remember. It’s also the memory of that self you lost along the way. You can get that part of you back. 


Hello. My name is Sam Jolman.

I am a therapist and writer who helps people get life back.

As a Licensed Professional Counselor I specialize in men’s issues, marriage counseling, and sexual abuse recovery. Though in my 20 years of experience, I’ve walked with many people through a broad range of very important personal and relational struggles.

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July 26, 2022

Why We Love (Hate) Our Marriage Fights

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May 27, 2022

How Ravi Happened

I wrote this last year, as a way to process the story of Ravi Zacharias. And even though Ravi has already long faded from the whir of the news cycle, I share it now with…
March 19, 2022

How Old Are You Really?

“You’re not the age you are. You’re all the ages you’ve ever been.” Fred Rogers “I am cumulative.” Wallace Stegner “I am still every age that I have been. Because I was once a child,…