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Sam Jolman

May 6, 2012

Why Men Masturbate

“Masturbation is an attempt to make ritual contact with the penis... to connect with the lost maleness.”  Joseph Nicolosi “Notice that the struggle with pornography or masturbation is most difficult when you are lonely, beat…
April 23, 2012

How Do You Make Others Feel?

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”  Maya Angelou “We actually respond to one another's energy more…
April 11, 2012

How to Become More Masculine

“Son’s don’t want their father’s ‘balls’; they want their hearts.” Terrance Real At 18 weeks pregnant, Amanda and I sat in the doctor’s office, hardly handling the hope that this might be the week we…
March 26, 2012

Being Lonely Does Make You Weak

“No man is an island entire of itself; every man, is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.”  John Donne “Isolation is inherently traumatizing.”  Sue Johnson “Loneliness doth make cowards of us all.” …
February 22, 2012

Lust, Part 3: How To Lust Well

“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.”Tom Robbins “Christ's love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring…
January 6, 2012


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”  Mary Oliver “Every entity persists in its state of being - at rest or moving uniformly straight forward -…